It's hard to believe that we're already on the cusp of starting yet another new year. And not just any new year -- a big year at our house, as both Abby and Isaac will graduate and move on to their next endeavors in 2026. I'm not sure that I'm emotionally ready for those changes and a lot of details still need to be fleshed out, but I know that God will see me (and them) through it all. And I try to rest in that knowledge.
We spent the final day of 2025 mostly together. Abby and I visited the Mother Ship (where I made sure to use all expiring stars, since I forgot to last month and seeing them sitting there in my account unusable gnaws at me) in the morning. The boys went shopping en masse, probably for my upcoming birthday.Wednesday, December 31, 2025
December 31
Tuesday, December 30, 2025
December 30
This morning (after I topped off my tummy tank with coffee, of course) we piled into the car and drove over to the Regal in Dublin to catch a showing of "Zootopia 2."
I won't spoil the film for anyone who wants to go see it, but it was cute. Probably not as good as the first one, but it featured some solid reminders about the importance of not judging books by their covers.Monday, December 29, 2025
December 29
The blurred figure in the image is Abby as she was engaged in her jog around the neighborhood this evening.
I spied her making her rounds from our bedroom window, so I snapped a pic for posterity's sake.Sunday, December 28, 2025
December 28
Saturday, December 27, 2025
December 27
After a multi-month lull, I am pleased to announce that my cro-jo has returned.
I'm not entirely sure why, but after several years of high productivity, I lost the desire to create earlier this year. I finished a project, put down my hook, and simply didn't pick it up again.Friday, December 26, 2025
December 26
Thursday, December 25, 2025
December 25
Merry Christmas! It was (literally) a day of sunshine and rainbows and showers and clouds.
But other than the volatile weather, it was a largely typical California Christmas at the Wight house. The kiddos arranged --via group chat message that I could see-- to wake me up at 8 AM, so they all trooped into our room and encouraged me to get out of bed. A glance out the window revealed a rainbow arching its way across the sky, so we all took a moment to admire its colorful majesty.After I Keurig-and-Coffee Mate'd my coffee and secured a cinnamon roll, I settled into the living room to begin the stocking reveals and gift opening. We always take a few hours to get through the process, thanks to the laughter that often erupts (like today's giggles over Brady's Sigma Claus and Isaac's 67 t-shirts).
Adam made a Hickory Farms charcuterie board house (fancy!) for lunch so we munched on that while going about our own activities for a few hours. Dinner was garlic-infused pot roast with carrots, onions, celery, and potatoes eaten from the good china using the good silverware. And then this evening, post-meal, we settled into the family room and watched "Mickey's Once Upon a Christmas" and "The Muppet Christmas Carol."
So that's what we did today. All of the fun presents exchanged and family time and traditions are truly wonderful. I enjoy and am grateful for them. But Jesus... the older I get, the more thankful I am for Jesus. Because of the work that He began on Christmas, I'll see my sweet Logan again. Some say that the grief of losing a child never goes away, but because of Jesus, I know there's an expiration date on mine. And knowing that I won't always exist in a state of "I wish he were here" is a blessing.
So today, I am grateful for Christmas. For the fun time with my much-adored and loved family, yes. For the gifts and the laughter and the time to relax, yes. But for Jesus most of all.
Wednesday, December 24, 2025
December 24
I'm not really sure how we're already to Christmas Eve (because didn't we just have Thanksgiving dinner?) but here we are.
It was a low-key day. Adam brought me an oat milk peppermint mocha this morning (since I'd only had one up til this point and they just don't hit the same after Christmas) and then made a pair of appetizers --cheese puffs reminiscent of a favorite by his late grandmother and bacon-wrapped green beans-- for later in the day. I braved the grocery store --which actually wasn't as scary as I expected-- in search of some cheese and crackers for tomorrow morning.Then we came home and hung up our stockings by the fireplace in the living room. And now we're watching "It's a Wonderful Life" while we wait for Santa to come by.
I know I say this often, but I'm grateful for time with family and for the traditions we share.
Tuesday, December 23, 2025
December 23
I really enjoy the family time leading up to Christmas.
Isaac still needed to find a gift for Adam, so after I returned from my morning sojourn to the Mother Ship, he and I headed off to shop. Since we were at Costco (which may or may not be related to said-gift's origin) over the lunch hour, we picked up food, and I'm sure we were quite the sight leaving with our armfuls of hot dogs and sodas from the food court. (Working at the Dairy has greatly improved his ability to carry multiple beverages at once.)Monday, December 22, 2025
December 22
Sunday, December 21, 2025
December 21
What a lovely, blessing-filled day it was. We started off by lighting the Advent candle of love at church as a family; after a brief snafu with the lighter, I --the appointed fire-starter-- managed to make the little flame dance on its wick. (And yes, Adam went up on stage wearing his ugly sweater. It was epic.)
From there, we drove up to Adam's parents' house for our first official Christmas gathering of the week. (There will be others!) We enjoyed a delicious "linner" that featured chicken cordon bleu, potatoes, and salad before the official gift-giving portion of the program commenced. There was lots of laughter (and cookies) and lots of photos snapped for posterity's sake. I do love looking back at these group pictures and I'm thankful that everyone else is willing to pose for them!Anyway, it was a great day, and I am grateful to God for the blessings of family, fun, and holiday cheer. They're like the candies of this life that make living a whole lot sweeter.
Saturday, December 20, 2025
December 20
Friday, December 19, 2025
December 19
Thursday, December 18, 2025
December 18
Imagine my surprise when I opened a Christmas greeting letter from the leader of Pleasanton's Young Life groups, flipped it over, and found a note written by Isaac. (And a cute photo!)
Since he's Isaac and Isaac tends to be a unique blend of secretive and humble, we had no idea that he'd written anything for Bruce (said-leader)'s letter. But there it was in black and white, under the Student Spotlight banner.Wednesday, December 17, 2025
December 17
I was sitting at the high top table at Starbucks this morning playing a game on my phone when a woman paused in front of me and asked if I was Sherry. I met her gaze and after a brief pause, I recognized her as Tammy.
Tammy was the receptionist at our dance studio. Although I hadn't actually seen her in a number of years, she'd come to mind a handful of times.Tuesday, December 16, 2025
December 16
I was bummed last month when I missed out on the Hello Kitty tumbler that Starbucks released. My research revealed that Starbucks/Hello Kitty collaborations have historically been extremely popular so it wasn't much of a surprise, but I half-heartedly posted to my Facebook profile to ask anyone who happened to find one to pick it up for me anyway.
I didn't expect it to pan out so I was shocked when my mother-in-law in-law Pat (also known as my brother's wife's mom -- I remember her dubbing herself my mother-in-law in-law back at my bridal shower many moons ago and the term still makes me giggle) reached out to say she had one.Monday, December 15, 2025
December 15
Sunday, December 14, 2025
December 14
Brady turned 15 today. Already!
We celebrated by doing whatever he wanted to do, which included church, followed by lunch at CPK (a frequent birthday pick for residents of the Wight House), a viewing of the Niner game, cake and presents with Abby joining us via Google Meets, and dinner (with just Adam and I, since Isaac forgot to request the day off work and was unable to trade his shift) at Mexico Lindo. We finished off the food parade (which is an added benefit of weekend birthdays -- an extra meal out) with peppermint ice cream cones at The Dairy. And of course, he enjoyed the requisite joking and laughing with his bigger bro sprinkled all throughout the hours.As I've noted before, Brady came along just when I needed him. Or maybe I should say that God sent him because He knew I'd need him. And I did indeed need him. Feeling him shift in my belly during those early months following the horror of Logan's diagnosis kept me moving forward even when I felt like I couldn't possibly survive another day. So yes, I'm grateful for the gift that Brady was 15 years ago; for the ways I was able to care for him and sustain him and be his lifeline when I felt like I could do so little for his biggest brother.
And I'm grateful now for the gift that he's continued to be over the years that have passed since then. He's whip-smart and regularly makes us laugh with his quick wit and perfectly-timed comebacks. He's also focused and dedicated and driven to succeed, and I know that he has the capacity to achieve amazing things, whether they be in the classroom or on the baseball diamond or somewhere else entirely. He may not be the first of my kiddos to offer up a big hug (because that distinction one hundred percent belongs to Isaac), but I love how he shares about his day without prompting and tells me if something's on his mind in a way that says "I'm looking for advice, even though I'm not directly asking for it." And then he actually listens to what I have to say.
He's a good kid, and I've always been blessed to be his mom. Happy 15th birthday, Brady. I love you!
Saturday, December 13, 2025
December 13
Friday, December 12, 2025
December 12
Last week I offhandedly asked Nikki if she and her mom had gone to tea recently. Although I'd been a few times in the past before it changed ownership --most notably for my 40th birthday-- she and her mom used to go fairly often, so with Christmas coming, it seemed like a logical question. The reply was no, but she remedied that by making a reservation for us for this morning.
And voila! Just a week later, here we are enjoying our Christmas tea.And, of course, the company was top notch, too. I've known Nikki's mom Pam for several years now so it's always fun to sit and catch up with what's been going on in her life.
I know I say it often, but real friendship is a blessing, so I am thankful for Nikki and for the way she's become like a sister to me over time. And I'm thankful for good tea, too!
Thursday, December 11, 2025
December 11
Wednesday, December 10, 2025
December 10
I'm not sure that I knew what I was in for when I became a parent 21 and some change years ago, but I'm pretty sure I never imagined myself writing "another day, another spontaneous wrestling match in front of the Christmas tree." But here I am, writing just that.
And chuckling over it.And I love how they care about each other, even when they're very obviously on one another's nerves. Brotherhood is a beautiful thing, and I am blessed to be able to watch their brotherhood continue to grow in all of its glorious weirdness.
Tuesday, December 9, 2025
December 9
It was a busy evening in our charming little downtown area, but after we finally snagged a parking spot along a side street, Adam and I made our way to one of our favorite eateries, where we enjoyed a pleasant dinner together.
And then after we'd swapped tales of our respective days and used bread to mop us the last smackerels of our lasagna and rigatoni, we once again zipped up our vests and braved the chilly night air to head back to the car.I don't ruminate on it often, but it's a blessing to live in a nice town. It's not perfect because nothing is, but I believe that most of the people here are good folks who care about others. So for that, I am thankful.
Monday, December 8, 2025
December 8
Today was a little busier than usual, as I picked Adam up from his office in the South Bay early this evening so I could join him and his team for dinner.
Now it's several hours post-meal and I'm back at home, sitting alone in the family room while this year's beautiful live tree sparkles over in the corner. (And no, the picture in the wall isn't usually right there, hence the apparently awkward positioning. It was displaced by the tree.)Sunday, December 7, 2025
December 7
We went up to Adam's parents' house after church today to help decorate their Christmas tree.
It was a good time, beginning with the Bills/Bengals game on TV over cheese/crackers/veggies for lunch, continuing with a quick celebration of Brady's upcoming 15th (whaaaat?!) birthday, and finishing with the official decorating of the enormous tree.And afterward, as we were preparing to head home, Brady and then Isaac thought it would be fun to climb up on the wall back behind the house. And I thought the sight of them in the fog (because man, it was foggy in Lafayette) in their grey pants and shirts contrasted with the bright string of lights along the roofline made for a cool image. (And lest I should forget some day, they decided that it would be a good idea to do the 6-7 hand motion, too.)
So for the blessing of family and for the gift of preparing for Christmas, I am thankful.
Saturday, December 6, 2025
December 6
I channeled my inner elf this morning and got to work putting out more Christmas decorations. And between decking the halls and adorning my vintage ceramic tree with colorful pegs, I went online, made our Christmas cards, and then drove down to CVS to pick them up. I even addressed a few and took them out to the mailbox.
I wouldn't go so far as to call it a herculean effort, but it felt really good to continue to prepare for the upcoming holiday. It felt good to set up the colorful lights and to scroll through my phone in search of the perfect images for our card. And it felt good to write mini updates on the back of said-card.Friday, December 5, 2025
December 5
I had a great time downtown with Nikki this morning.
We started off at Peet's for some coffee and tasty treats (because their baked goods and sandwiches are so good. All love to the Mother Ship but Peet's has ya beat in this area).Thursday, December 4, 2025
December 4
When Isaac trudged up the steps from the garage this afternoon, he was carrying a McDonalds bag. I looked at him quizzically as he pulled out a packet of fries and 20 Chicken McNuggets. He grinned and, as he settled into his place at the table to chow down, explained that it was his "celebration meal."
And celebrate he should, because this morning he received his first college acceptance: Biola University in Southern California.So here we are: one app submitted, one acceptance in his back pocket. He still needs to finish the other two apps. I have no idea how those will pan out for him, but I'm thankful that he can relax now with the knowledge that there's at least one school that wants him to be part of their student body next year.
Wednesday, December 3, 2025
December 3
Tuesday, December 2, 2025
December 2
The sky was ablaze with pinks and reds and oranges as I drove Brady home from baseball practice early this evening.
The color was so vibrant that even he --my kiddo who doesn't typically involve himself much with the small details-- noticed and commented on it as I turned the car onto our street.Monday, December 1, 2025
December 1
About a week ago, I off-handedly mentioned to Brady that I planned to make a "pasta bake" for dinner. I didn't specify when I planned to do so, but he's persistent when he's interested in tasting something, so he asked for it. Every single day.
Since it was chilly outside today --according to our little hallway monitor that displays the temperature, it never got above 50 and there was a biting quality to the air-- I decided that tonight was the night.



.jpg)
.jpg)


.jpg)

.jpg)

.jpg)






.jpg)




.jpg)


.jpg)